What Our Fence Taught Us About Setting Boundaries

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Getting more than just solitude in Avon, CT

At first, when we called Cox Fence, we believed we were just putting up a fence. We didn’t know that creating a fence would teach us about limits, not just for our property in Avon, CT, but also for our lives.

It began like most stories do, with an issue we couldn’t ignore.

The Point of No Return

We had been living in our Avon house for a little over a year. There were enormous trees, an open sky, and lots of room for our dog, Jasper, in our backyard. But there was a catch: we backed up to a walking trail, so it seemed like we were always on show. People walking by could see everything, from our Sunday morning coffee to our clumsy efforts at yoga to the inflatable kiddie pool we pretended was for our niece.

It wasn’t only about privacy. It was about peace. We wanted our room back.

“Just a Fence” Became a Big Choice

We had talked about putting up a fence for months, but the idea scared us. There are so many choices. There are so many things we don’t know. Wood? Vinyl? Pickets? Panels? Are local bylaws even going to let us put one up? Would it block too much light? Would the people next door be upset?

Finally, after a very embarrassing wave to a stranger while wearing pajama pants and slippers, we decided to stop putting it off and start looking.

The Reason We Picked Cox Fence

A neighbor told us about Cox Fence, a well-reviewed fence company in Avon. We felt something change as soon as we called. They weren’t trying to get us to buy anything. Not only did they ask about our budget, but they also asked about our ambitions. Did we want a wall or privacy? Were pets a worry? Did we care more about how it worked or how it looked?

They also knew Avon. Which sounds easy, yet it made a big difference. They knew what the local zoning rules were, what the homeowner association rules were, and even how our sloped yard would influence the build.

From Planning to Feeling Safe

The people from Cox Fence provided us a lot of design ideas and didn’t rush us. We chose a horizontal cedar privacy fence that looked modern but still fit well with the trees in our yard.

We thought installation day would be harder than it was. The crew was quick, polite, and neat. They even moved the gate a little bit so that our uneven walkway wouldn’t cause problems in the future.

We were amazed when they were done. The barrier looked amazing. And what’s more important? It was like our yard again.

The Lessons We Didn’t Expect to Learn

The most surprising thing about this fence project was what it taught us about life, not just about materials and space.

1. Limits give you freedom.

We felt putting up a fence would make us feel trapped. We felt more like ourselves, more comfortable, and more playful. Our backyard turned into a safe place.

2. Better relationships come from having clear expectations.

The process taught us how important it is to talk clearly with contractors, neighbors, and each other, much like the fence showed us where our area ended.

3. Saying no is a way to show respect for yourself.

We stopped saying sorry for wanting to be alone. It’s okay to preserve your peace.

Why We Think Cox Fence Is a Good Idea

They didn’t just put up a fence; they made a barrier between us and the outside world. They took care of all the logistics, made the process easy, and took good care of our home.

Cox Fence is a good choice if you live in the Avon region and need a fence business that understands what you need. They know that a fence isn’t simply wood and nails; it’s a promise to feel safe, tranquil, and at home where you reside.

And sometimes…the best thing you can create is a small wall.

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